My husband is a gran mal epilepitic ,with complications from  adult onset diabetics and sleep apenea . We get no help except for we do have someone who pays our monthly payment for our insurance through one of the state run insurance program  and we get food stamps.My 83 year old mother and 86 year old father pay our utilities which are aprox. $300 a month . but they have not been recieveing any money for rent since we were supossed to be paying them rent to cover the taxes when they are due  . So they have to cover those now too.

I  can't work because I  have to stay home and take care of my husband  since the drs. have ordered him to stay in bed and keep his foot elevated above his heart . I guess i 'm needing some body  to help me in applying for a grant or guideing me as to how to apply for one . I 've wanted to start my own bussiness but can't think about that right now . i need to help pay my own way somehow someway till my  husband gets approved for disability hopefully

i'm a wife of a gran mal epileptic , who has complications from diabeties, and sleep apeane. we have been applying for disability for the last ten +years now . without any luck . his lawyer is suspossed to be one of the better lawyers for getting ssi/ssa for his clients .The WA. state DSHS workers have told us to apply all the time we were getting a gau when our kids were under 18 but for the last 7 years we have not even gotten insurance till I hadf to have emergency surgery last June . My husbband was without his meds till he started getting open ulcers on his leg which didn't heal .After two years they finally diagnoised as him having adult onset diabetics with complications . JUst recently he had to spend a week in the hospital because of the infection we've been fighting , that is becoming resistant to all the antibiotics they've treated him with over the last year.Now the just figured out he has sleep apenea on top of everything else . So this man who once graduated with his gold honor braids is now is fryng what brains he has left from lack of oxygen while he sleeps .Is now refusing to sleep . I guess my queston is does anyome know how to fill out those damn papers for disability and get them to be approved instead of getting the same old denial we've gotten for the last ten + years ? I 'm ready to go bonkers filling them out over and over answerering the same question just reworded.that all I've done the last year i think . I can't even go back to work if i could find a job . my 83 year old mother has been susporting us because we get no money at all from any sorce since my unemployment ran out 2 years ago after i got laid of .